Change my fears!

Dear friend,

We all want to change sometimes don't we? Change our style, looks, how we live, what we eat, our relations, financial situation, hair, our thoughts or even just who we are sometimes. Change for the better or what we think will be better!

Because the grass is always greener on the other side, right? ;)

I often think that I would like to change something in my life but then I often fear that it will change other things in life that I want to keep the way they are. SCARY! It's the thought of wanting to change something but the fear of it actually changing that I am often struggling with.

It's often hard to know if its something you really want to change or if you are just tired of something else in life at that moment that ANY change feels like it would make things better! I hate doing things that I regret doing later on, everyone does. Which is why my fear of changing keeps hitting me in the face over and over. If I think "I better not dye my hair black, I might regret it tomorrow" but at the same time my head keeps saying "But aren't you sick of your hair colour, wouldn't it be great to feel like you've change something big in your life like this?"

It drives me crazy. Do you think it's better to just jump and see where it takes you, or maybe slowly walk down the stairs because you are scared the fall might hurt?

What do you do with your life when you feel like changing something, my lovely?
Love Suembi Lue x x